One of the most obvious "common denominators" that I found when I was meeting guys who were "naturals" with women... was their ability to make women LAUGH and SMILE. The more I saw this, the more I thought that these guys must understand how to be "funny". This turned out to be only PART of the equation. The REST of the equation was the HOW.
r observing many interactions between men and women, I started to notice a pattern... Many of the things that the "successful" guys were saying to women weren't what you might call "nice". They weren't sweet, affectionate "please like me" words. And they weren't a bunch of "jokes" that you might hear from a stand-up comedian. No, this was something different.